Friday, July 8, 2011

Men, don't sleep on the couch

I think a lot of guys have been brainwashed by the media that in a heterosexual relationship with cohabitation, they should be the one to "sleep on the couch" if there is an unresolved argument of some sort, even if the woman is at fault.

Fuck that, and fuck the media for bombarding us with shit like this that makes us think it's noble to be a doormat for a woman.

First of all, there's no reason anyone need sleep on the couch. A queen size bed has more than enough room for two people to sleep in it without touching, if an argument leaves you feeling icky at the thought of cuddling with the other person.

Second, if anyone's going to sleep on the couch, it's not going to be me, it's going to be her. It's my bed, and like I already said there's no reason anyone needs to sleep on the couch. If she doesn't like it, she can sleep on the couch or get the fuck out.

It's especially important not to bend your will to a woman by sleeping on the couch when you know she is in the wrong. Giving into her in this way only rewards bad behavior and will encourage more disharmony in your relationship as she tries to see how much she can get away with. She will also lose more and more respect for you because nobody likes someone who doesn't stand up for themselves, especially when it's a man.

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